Gift of Love on Mother’s Day: Gifts That Are Sure To Last a Lifetime

The Box, The Dish Cloth, The Needles, The Threads, The Sun Glasses, The Candle..

Mothers day gifts: The Box, The Dish Cloth, The Needles, The Threads, The Sun Glasses, The Candle.

Mothers day gifts: The Box, The Dish Cloth, The Needles, The Threads, The Sun Glasses, The Candle.

What do they mean to me?  What do they symbolized?

GIFT OF LOVE FROM TOM

Mothers day - Card

Mothers day - Card

Dear Jhet,

These objects in the box symbolize variety of characteristics that you have given me and to others.  I am going to explain each of the objects to you.

Mother's Day Gift - The Dish Cloth

Mother

First of all the “dish cloth” symbolizes your caring for me for the past four years. You’ve always did your best to keep me safe and away from bad influences. Just like the cloth which sometimes sanitizes house wares in the kitchen. I believe you are my personal best cloth of caring which kept me clean and away from bad influences.

Thanks for your care.

Mother's Day Gift - The Needle

Mother

Secondly, the “needle” represents your toughness.  Although they are small and skinny, the needles can make beautiful textiles for people to see, wear and enjoy.   Despite your small physical appearance, you are very inspirational figure.  What lies within you is magnificent and astonishing.

Thank you for your tough ambition.

Mothers day gifts - Colorful Threads

Mother

Thirdly, the “colorful threads” remind me of your creative and motivating mind.  Sometimes when I love my self-confidence, I remember you as one of my inspirational figures.  Just like when the threads are gathered together, they present as a colorful garment.

The threads’ hidden potential tells me that in reality, everyone has their own talent, which just needs to be found and sewn together. If there is a strong confidence and belief, there would be no doubt that each and every one of us can become great.

Thank you for your generosity to share your colorful mind.

Mothers day gifts - Sunglasses

Mother

The symbol of the “sunglasses” has been shared by you to millions of others around the world. The sun glasses symbolizes the vision which you have encouraged to  others. Because of you numerous people are saved and inspired to find their vision and God given talents.

Thank you for your inspiration.

Mothers day gifts - Pink Candle

Mother

Lastly, the “pink candle”, which has a scent of a rose. This symbolizes your love.  Your love has always been helpful, and one of cheerful harmonies in our house. I cannot possibly describe your love because… (at this point it was the edge of the card – hes got his own sense of humor) no more space to write.. ) Thank you Jhet.

Mothers day - Love Letter

Mother

The Card says.. From Your Son.

Mom this comes with special thoughts, with love and wishes too…for everything to make your day especially nice for you.

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!

WHO IS TOM?

Tom

Tom

Tom is from Seoul, Korea. He is the only son to his biological parents Patrick and Jane (Canadian English name Michelle had given them) Tom lived with us since he was 12 years old and left for University in Toronto, Canada at age 19. Couple of years ago Tom surprised me with one of the most significant gifts I ever received on mothers day.  As you read his notes and as described the items and what it symbolized for him and me, you know that he used his creativity, his talent and extra effort in giving me the gift of love that will last forever etched in my heart. My heart and soul is swelling with gratefulness.

Tom spent his teenage formative years in our home and became a brother to daughters Michelle and Catherine. We became really great friends with his parents. We visited them in Korea numerous times throughout the years and his parents spent 3 Christmases with us in Canada as one family.  He visited us in the Philippines including a trip to Pader, Lian, Batangas – the barrio where I was born. Tom moved on to study at the University of Toronto. He recently went back to Seoul, Korea and will serve the mandatory Army service in the next two years)

Before this gift from Tom (Mother’s Day Card and a cute box containing those items mentioned) all the while I was not so sure how I’m making an impact on Tom’s life. I treated him as a real member of our family – a son that I never had. If you know what I mean. I gave him tough love, I treated him as if he is my son – brother to Michelle and Catherine, put him to work and was asked to contribute to household chores. Oh yeah, He received his dozes of discipline. You see he is the only child and he is kind of spoiled both with love and material things at his own home. I thought that he can’t wait to get back home because he has not much of a freedom with us…until I received this message from his heart) Tom  filled our life with meaning and purpose. He was with us total of seven years. Deep in my heat he will make his own impact as a leader in his chosen field.

I love you son, our superman. Keep soaring like a SUPERMAN you are!

Superman Tom, with Catherine and Michelle

Superman Tom, with Catherine and Michelle

(If you own or read a copy of the book I’ve written THE TALE OF JULIET – You Have The Power To Change Your LIfe, Tom is the one in the picture with Michelle and Catherine dressed up as SUPERMAN)

Magical Moments in The Life of Jhet aka Juliet

AFTER TWO YEARS of shying away from writing and blogging… KICKING OFF WITH CHANGING LIVES CONCERT – Yihahhh!!!

TIMBALAND, JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE, JOJO ROCKS MANILA, PHILIPPINES,

March 27, 2010, SM Mall of Asia

http://www.youtube.com/user/jhetvanruyven?feature=mhw5#p/a/u/1/knRXSXRfFgU

Morning of March 27 I woke up early. We, (Francis, daughter Mish and I)will to go to the beach somewhere in Batangas, South of Manila for a break from the city.  The night before I heard that Justin Timberlake would be in a concert the following evening.  Tickets must be sold out by then. Although in the back of my mind, last minute I thought it would be nice to go.  (Wishful thinking?) Justin Timberlake is kind of cute and I love to see him perform live.

That morning, ( the day of the concert) we were already an hour away from the city on our way to the beach, when the concert interest was discussed amongst us. Expecting miracles, our good friend Francis made a single phone call and after few text exchanges later on.. BINGO we secured not only 1 ticket but 3 tickets for the concert.  Thanks to Shar and Jaimie and whoever the tickets originated from. We turned around, changed our plans to a closer venue day-trip get- away to make it back to the concert. Yippeeee!!!

Lessons Learned :

1) Miracles happen when you believe. Expect Miracles for miracles happen when you least expected it.

2) Ask – You’ll never know what is instore for you when you don’t ask.

3) Be Open and spontaneous – practice no attachment. Be ready to change plans at anytime

Here I am click the link here

http://www.youtube.com/user/jhetvanruyven?feature=mhw5#p/a/u/1/knRXSXRfFgU

(Jhet aka Juliet author THE TALE OF JULIET – You Have The Power to Change Your Life) with daughter Michelle (Mish van Ruyven) dancing and singing our hearts away at Changing Lives Timbaland, Jojo and Justine Timberlake Concert. Huge Crowd! This is just the beginning of a 3 hour concert.

(Last time we saw a concert was of our very own Gary Valenciano courtesy of our friend Anthony Pangilinan and it was not an outdoor standing room only crowd. We were in the front seats and in the comfort of airconed Araneta Colliseum. In Canada, was a concert by Yanni inside the GM Place exact same venue where we had the 2010 Opening and Closing ceremony and  infamous Canadian Olympic Gold Hockey Game.  This is totally different from where we are used to and I had so much fun)

Timbaland  is a Grammy Award winning record producer, singer and rapper. Concert proceeds go to PLDT – Smart Foundation – Changing Lives, victim of Ondoy.

Come sing a long with us….

IF WE EVER MEET AGAIN

What’s somebody like you, doing in a place like this?
say, did you come alone? or did you bring all your friends.
say, whats your name, what you drinking
i think i know what you’re thinking
baby whats your sign, tell me yours ill tell you mine
say, whats somebody like you doing in a place like this

CHORUS:
I’ll never be the same – if we ever meet again
Won’t let you get away-ay – say, if we ever meet again
This free fall’s, got me so
Kiss me all night, don’t ever let me go
I’ll never be the same
if we ever meet again

say if we ever meet again

Do you come here much? I swear I’ve seen your face before
Hope you don’t see me flash, but I cant help but want you more, more
Baby tell me whats your story
I ain’t shy, don’t you worry
I’m flirting with my eyes, wanna leave with you tonight
So do you come here much, I gotta see your face some more, some more

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